I like that procrastinating line you use to think about having a drink later but not now. I'll have to try that out. I'm probably going to try and find a group to try as well. I live in New York City so there have to be a lot of them near me. I'm a little nervous about my boyfriend's reaction to my attending AA meetings though, so I might have to lie and tell him I'm going to some other kind of class. He's already challenged by my desire to "cut back." I haven't told him I'm quitting completely because I've failed at it so many times before. How's that for confidence? However, I've never reached out and tried to find others like this forum before so maybe with the right friends and support who are all trying to accomplish the same goal it will be different this time. Thanks all!