Well he called I was on the other line with a sponsee so I did not answer. He is at the army for the day doing things so he cannot take calls whenever he wants (as some may recall he is getting ready to deploy).
I know I want to be happy, joyous and free. I will keep everyone posted on the results of our phone call. He left a voicemail with an excuse as to why he did not go to his homegroup. All fear of other people's opinion. BS if we are willing to go to any length like me than we go to places where there will be help for us regardless of what a few think.