I was hoping that my threat to divorce him would be the wake-up call. I realize now that, in all likelihood, we'll actually get divorced. Maybe that won't even do it. This is SO hard on our kids; I worry so much about what will be the best for them. I finally realized that they might not forgive me for "making Daddy go away" but they also might not forgive me for enabling Daddy's alcoholism for years and years.
He is living with us now.