Dear TC, you say that when you do things, eg; go to the gym etc, you are told "you are acting like you are independant.
YOU ARE INDEPENDANT........YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE INDEPENDANT.
If your bf wants a woman running after him, catering to him hand and foot, and doing nothing for or by herself, then he better go find one; because
YOU ARE AN INDEPENDANT WOMAN......and you do not do SLAVE.
Yes life is much simpler and often a darn sight more pleasant without a bf or so called partner.
I enjoy the company of my RABF, but live in our own units tho in the same complex, so we are independant and able to do what we each want, without tripping over each other. BLISS:
God bless