i'm so sorry to have bothered you, i still need to do a lot of work on me. i still sometimes have flashbacks about things i've done or said or my ah has done while activr in addiction. you are so right smd i'm sorry if i offended you. i tried to only say what it sounded like to me, i am aware that my opinion is not written in stone. i'm so glad that i was wrong in doubting his story.