I'm sorry for all you've had to go through. It is true, the intensity of being newly sober will lessen. I was a mess for months, and still keep changing and growing after 2 yrs. We were numb for a long time and have to learn to live again.
You're doing the right things to help yourself, and I'm sure it will pay off. I'm glad you're coming here to share how you feel - we all care.