My Dear,
This is very much the demanding relationship that I just got out of. The neediness, the pressure for committment, the constant manipulation and coercion.
Make no mistake- This WILL suck the life right out of you.
What would you do if someone told you they wanted to lock you in a deep dark hell, take away your friends and family and make you feel worthless??
Because that is what these people do- soon everything that is wrong is his life will become your fault.
It may seem like you are the strong one at this time. After awhile that changes and you begin to feel insane.
Save yourself - please
By the way- my relationship ended with a protective order, frightened at night, sleeping with a gun and panic attacks. In the beginning, never in a million years would have believed he could be violent. (He just loved me so much) NOT