To me, love develops over time, through mutual respect and appreciation. There is no "now or never," no "commit now or lose me forever." That sounds more like desperation than love. I've been seeing the same guy for almost three years now. We still see each other once a week. No pressure. No drama. No doubts about how we feel or moving to the "next level." Just mutual respect, admiration, trust and comfort. We go about our individual lives during the week and come together on the weekend. I look forward to Friday every week. I don't worry or fret about what he is doing Monday thru Friday. It's not what most people would consider a "normal" relationship. But, it works for us. And it doesn't stress me out or make me think there is something "wrong."
Talking marriage and children after two months would definitely stress me out and make me feel pressured. If it is meant to be, it will. No amount of urgency or fear can change that.
L