Originally Posted by
ANEWAUGUST 
Hi there and welcome....
Please do as GiveLove suggests and consult an attorney before you buy the house.
A house is just a physical structure made of bricks and wood.
A home is a loving place that provides warmth and shelter for a family.
Buying a house, doesn't give you, or your children a home.
Peace
Nice statement! very good point! I just feel like I would be starting over. Realistically they make it so difficult I feel if I didn't do it now I will never have that house. Not in the near future anyways. The economy speaks on the perfect opportunity to purchase a home and I see it as that an opportunity to get ahead. Despite my pay in the near future no simple person will be able to purchase a home. That is off point but I am just trying to help you understand my point of view. Its like now or never. Thanks for the advice I am listening to everyone and taking into account my personal situation.