This just gets clearer and clearer to me.
In the past, this type of crap from him worked to his advantage. So well. I would either:
scurry around, doing whatever he wanted to try to placate him or
blow up. then he could justify his resentment and whatever course of action he took based on what a witch his wife is.
Today, instead I will go to yoga and ignore him. I am really angry though. I think it's a trigger, because ordinarily I would just get off the phone nice like and get on with my day.
Seriously, he called acting all distant and pissy. I, like an idiot, ask what's wrong with him. He gives me the "I need excitement" line. That didn't work so he did the same thing with money.
He's just doing what he does. The important question is why am I reacting so strongly? And how long do I want to dissect it before moving on, gratefully, without him?