I stayed in too - but this was more of a financial thing for me. If I stayed in, he would too and buy drink from the off license. If I went out with friends without him, he would either all out binge at home and call and text me all night OR he would go out and binge. My night out would end up costing a fortune because he would factor in HIS drinking and use the final cost as a way of blaming me!!! And I lived like that!!
