ddamm9, I'm so glad you found us. There's a lot of support here. Do please read the Sticky posts at the top of the forum, as forever4you suggests. You cannot control what your wife does or doesn't do, but in this time away from her you can educate yourself about all the ugly faces of the disorder of alcoholism, and fill your well with strength and wisdom. We "get it."
Take care of yourself in this time--although it must feel very odd to you (our bodies are definitely creatures of habit) it can be very clarifying to be removed from a damaging situation for a while, to be able to step back and see what might need to change if our life is going to be a happy one.