Impurrfect said what I think quite well; just wanted you to know I empathize.
I'll throw this one in too:
I really really like to be liked. When I have to do something that others may not like, that need often gets in the way of me doing what is right for. I don't want anyone "mad" at me, or getting to be able to add to the "what's wrong with her list". Thing is, I am starting to discover that that kind of liking me does not always come with a great amount of respect.
(I suspect you are concerned over how your husband will react)
KNOW you did nothing wrong.
Peace