OMG this place is great all the things I've been thinking. I am so proud of me I came through for once for me. I told my hubby what I needed and are your ready he came though maybe all along I needed to say what I feel and what i need. It took me learning that I am a way big Codie and so in need of acceptance that I have for so long neglected my own feelings and my own needs. It's a start.. tomorrow I am going to leave tis job I hate and hope for the best.. Wish me luck!