thanks for your reply cobra , we can be newbies together .
i remember those dark awful days of his drinking and remeber thinking if only he would stop .
and now , in this last year of his sobriety , ive thought , if only he could be happy .
i was so isolated back then , so absolutely miserable in my situation , shut out al of my friends and family so they couldnt see what was going on . now im getting out there , reaching out for once instead of trying to do it alone .
i really think this forum will be such an amazing place for support and healing .