good for you!
and yes, from what you wrote - you've gotten your answer.
I'd just written this whole big thing to you
on the other thread
only to have the computer time out
and lost it.
But it basically said
that I hope
you're not sitting around waiting
to sculpt some kind of FUTURE
around this person.
Because that's what we do, you know.
We put what WE want out of life
aside until we know what THEY want.
Good for YOU!!!!!