OMG- another year gone. Long story short. He stayed sober 6 months, took him back, let him move in, promised to never drink again.
Then he decided he was not really an alcoholic and could have a couple beers to relax. Even though I begged him not to, he drank anyway. 3 months later, I am at fault for everything.
Same old story, I make him angry, I cause him to drink and on and on. Apparently I also caused him to send email to an ex and try to get back with her.
It ended early Sunday morning with him being arrested for unplugging me from 911 and tearing up my house.
So for Christmas, I got a restraining order. And he lost another job- which is totally not my problem anymore.
So I basically want to kick myself for believing in him- driving his sorry butt around when he did not have a license. For taking him back when all my friends told me not to.