Now you all have me thinking...
Reading things like "..the A doesn't want to lose their enabler, so they'll do anything to convince you to stay..."
Why do Alcoholics seem to need their enablers? I mean if they want to waste their life away and not be bothered about it, wouldn't it be more beneficial to themselves to get rid of everyone? After all, they are their own best enablers.
Any insight? Just curious about this.