Thanks, I'm doing OK I suppose. Just quite disheartened at the moment. He is actually now moaning that I don't say well done because he is trying so hard! Well done for what exactly? For being on an abstinence program and still drinking, for drinking slightly less than every day, or for making plans with me all the time then drinking instead? What excatly should I be grateful for out of that?
I really like the sound of those couples programs and I think that would really help but I don't think there is anything like that in my area. Shame, becuase I really want to try to understand but there is such a lack of communication on the subject between us.