When he goes out to party, he won't answer the phone. He lives with me. I moved out last year to get away from him. Then of course he couldn't make the house payments and he lost our house. So he asked to stay with me for a couple weeks and now it's been 6 months. He has no intention of leaving. I'm just so hurt and tired and depressed myself, it's hard to follow through with anything. And he knows that of course. I'm seeing a counselor and taking anti-depressants and he's trying to use that against me, telling me I'm the crazy one.