Thats the thing isnt it Ives,, they have never met you!!! Our As are very good at spinning a story, making us sound like the ones in the wrong, purely and I mean purely to allow them to drink, we are the party poopers, I drink, i enjoy a good time, but i know when to stop, how boring is that to an A....forget her enablers, they are the same as her, they dont know you and they are all out for themselves in the end..there will be no real loyalty there...you care and are concerned, they are not, they simply want to justify themselves through someone else...we know this....its terribly sad, it hurts, but really how can someone hate you without ever having met you, what does that say about the person!!! Let her fall on her own sword, you might be there to pick up the pieces, but be careful if you do.. wishing you peace...Lilly x