My XA actually told me once that I was codependent....or that I was "acting" codependent.
It was regarding my concern for his drinking after we had gotten in an arguement.
In hindsight, that statement that he made INFURTIATES me. He said it to point out my issues, though he was right. But of course it made me feel like I was the one with the BIG flaw.....not him.
Wow, everytime I think about him now, all I can say is WHAT A JERK.
