Originally Posted by
meditation 
Bas, I don't think you are mean spirited or any of those descriptions. I think you are well intentioned and are frustrated that she is not seeking AA as the answer. Because it has worked for you and that is your ESH . . . Intolerance is not tolerating that a person can find a way besides a step program.
Reread what I wrote. . . I could give a rats-a$$ about whether she goes to AA or not.
What matters is the lies people tell themselves, purport to be the truth, and possibly cause harm to others seeking a solution.
Its a subtle point I am making. Trust me, you are completely mistaken as to my "frustrations" (your word not mine)