There you go again TC, making healthy choices. BRAVO!!
If we are to ever stop the habits the got us here, we have to make those tough choices and say no when we would much rather say a breathy oh yes.
Guys like the one you are describing must keep addresses and numbers of women the way I hang on to the numbers of veterinarians I've taken my pets to over the years. Because I never know when I'll be in their neck of the woods again and need their services.
I think I speak for both of us when I say that we are no longer in those woods and our services are no longer available to likes of him.
YOU GO GIRL!!!
Alice