It does not bother me to be around my alcoholic Fiance' while he is drinking or to go out with friends if they drink. I only have difficulty if I were to got to a bar. So, I avoid bars. I have maintained my sobriety for two tears living like this. Busy with AA and my Bible studies is enough for me. I feel more sadness for my mate than I do temptation. No alcohol is in the house, he drinks in the garage. But, I still visit him there when he is drinking.