to repeat what Ann stated YES, " And there is always hope "
Even when we detach ( for ourselves ) we can still let our AS know we love them
with a sandwich and coffee and stay just close enough to give them a glimpse of the family that will welcome them back...when they become ready.
My 25 yr old son showed up at my work once at age 21, just after he'd been beat up... and MIA for awhile. I can relate.
But he is sober today. Be patient and stay strong. Continue to reach out for all the support you need to get through the heartbreaking yrs.
But he is sober today a