Old 12-13-2009, 09:01 AM
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Well, so that is Boleo's experience. I find his experience to be different than mine.

Let's remember the OP... a young adult who has identified as alcoholic. He is concerned, like all of those before him, especially those his age, that life will lose it's zing. He's come here for support and re-assurance... Will his life still be interesting?

What is the message he needs to hear? This one...

It will probably take you some time to figure it out but you will never enjoy the same old thrills again.
And then to seal the deal....

About the only thing that will give you a sense of purpose now is helping others like yourself recover.
Is this how you "pitch" a 22 year old?

How about... Yea, you are going to have to change your lifestyle some, maybe a lot... You will find it challenging at first... Activities and interests that you have had before alcohol and that don't involve alcohol will probably come back into your life, perhaps with even more vigor and excitement than ever before.... You will, also, find yourself in the position to help others just like you, and since you will find your new life so much more meaningful you will WANT to help them and show them the way that you found to recover.

Just sayin'

Mark
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