Been awhile since I posted Bonnie...Keeping your family in my prayers. Things can work out. People can beat this aweful disease. My 24 yr old daughter has almost 3 years clean, her fiance almost 4. They just had a lil boy on oct 7. They are sitill both active in their home groups and are in contact with thier sponsers. Please don't feel responsable for your sons actions. Genes or no genes...it was his choice. Let go and let God....Sending hugs.