Thread: No matter what...he doesn't get it!
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Old 12-05-2009, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by mentallyexh View Post
so he is on a friend's couch and he hates it - but trust me I hate being treated so badly JUST AS BAD...so that is where he can stay!
If you're fighting the guilt he's throwing on you about this, remind yourself that this is his consequence - not yours. You are not responsible for dealing with his consequences.

FWIW he doesn't sound interested in recovery - just interested in when things can go back to "normal".

Hang in there - struggling through the insanity of the alcoholic in the longest, heaviest step to make. Keep reminding yourself that whether he realizes it or not his consequences are STILL his consequences.
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