Lots of good advice here kjell.
I figure I spent the best part of 20 years walking into the woods of alcoholism...I wasn't going to find my way home in a single bound...
One of the greatest things about my recovery for me was it taught me patience.
I was so used to instant gratification, instant fixes. I had to let go and develop a little faith that things would turn out just through waiting , and that sometimes the best things take time.
They did work out tho, Kjell.
Hang in there
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