Thanks to both of you.
I'm still at that stage where I'm questioning everything including myself. Is it - isn't it?
No physical abuse is involved and if I'm honest if I was to talk to anybody in person I probably would, just like your cousin, make excuses. I just started wondering the other day when a family member called me instead, because they were 'scared' in case they got an aggressive reaction. So I did what I thought was best: Turn to SR. Love you guys.
Last edited by Saphie; 11-30-2009 at 10:08 AM.