Back when....I was certain my daughter would steal from her employers...absolutely wonderful, older people, who thought the world of her.
My gut was screaming, at the time, to tell them about my daughter's addiction to prevent them from being hurt by her.
My daughter, at that time, was apt to lie, cheat and steal, from anyone.
I came to the conclusion that I was reacting to my own hurt and in the name of protecting this couple, I was trying to control my daughter's life.
I kept my mouth shut and stayed in my own hula hoop.