But she's clingy, needy, deeply dishonest and manipulative, and desperately insecure. It makes her nasty, hateful, punitive, rejecting...and she covers it all up with lots of crying and timidity and ditsyness (I don't know what I did, I just luuuuvvv everybody, I am only trying to heeeeeeelp).
Oh my, Bucyn, does your MIL have a twin? I have the same situation. Not once in 20 years did I come first, she did. Her feelings, her needs, her words.
He talked to her last friday about his faults, things he had done, and why I feel the way I do about her and the situation. I saw her saturday and she glared at me and walked away. Once again he is perfect and good, and right as always. And love is so blind.
I am sure it is because I am hurting her son, and she is just not ok with that. He recommended to her that she go to Al-Anon, to a meeting time that I agreed not to go to. She hasn't gone, and
pr'y won't.
She did, however, send me a Facebook invitation to join the peace, love and respect group. That will solve everything! I blocked her from seeing anything on my page, or posting anything at all. Considering deleting her altogether.
I have a million stories, too. Will try to post some thru out the day.