((rhonda))
my thoughts and prayers are with you -
tomorrow will be hard from you and your family I'm sure -
I know it was difficult for me and our family when my daughter spent Christmas in jail - 2 yrs ago - she has gotten out and gone back a couple of times - but I am very grateful to say that today she has almost 7 months sober and is working, going to college, and is an active part of all 3 of her children's lives - which means as a grandma - I get to be a part of their lives too!!!!
Tough love is harder on us I believe - but I do believe that it does help allow that other person the ability to find their inner dignity to sometimes make the choice to look for a brighter pathway.
HUGS,
Rita