Welcome, Beachangel. Littlefish and Taz pretty much said it all, the only caution I would throw in is that some women in AA can get a lot of unwanted attention disguised as "helping the newcomer". It can mess with your head and interfere with getting sober. Nothing like starting out with a resentments against half the people in the room. I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess you're well above average in the looks department, you may find a more healing atmosphere in women's meetings.