I made a list of the negatives and positives of my relationship....
72 negatives, 3 positives. Ummmmmm yeah.
Sodetermined, do you want to start over with the no contact. I think it is easy to get sucked back in, but I don't think that it means we have to stay sucked back in. If you think it is truly unhealthy for you to have contact with him at this point, then you can make up your own mind and reinforce the no contact.
Sometimes we have to start over...and that's ok!