Originally Posted by
mentallyexh 
Since I gave him an ultimatum in July, he had really cut back, but not quit.
IME, boundaries are a lot more effective, it's all about you, right?
A boundary protects you, and leaves the other free to do as they please.
Pretty sure there are some stickies on the subject here.
The rest, well, you're dealing with someone that most of us would regard as at least a little
insane.
How do you expect him to behave?