Part of me says: to have regular contact with both mommy and daddy, to develop a relationship with both of them.
The other part of me says: to have a steady, calm life with mommy because daddy isn't always able to provide stability.
I can't figure this equation out.
To make matters more complex, I found out today that my stepson is failing French, is (according to his teacher) emotionall distraught and isolated, and has asked to return to Toronto.
ARG!