Originally Posted by LaTeeDa

I had to learn to overcome my fear of abandonment in order to stop myself from clinging to a relationship that was unhealthy. I had to overcome the committee in my head that told me I was a bad person if I didn't give people "another chance" after they had repeatedly hurt me. And I had to learn that no decision is forever. If I make a mistake, I can learn from it and either right it or do better next time. I don't have to be held hostage by my fear of making mistakes.