Originally Posted by
normaeinstein 
I'm just thinking about things really.
Things about actions and reactions
Trying to get things clearer for myself so I can move on better.
If I can't trust my AH is that my issue?
Is that something I have to sort out?
Or does he have to show me that I can trust him again?
Is it his issues that I can't trust him?
Does it even matter?
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Fool me multiple times, I'm should forget about what they're doing, I think it's pretty obvious who has the problem here.
My story, with the caveat, I never did trust her, and it wasn't my issue.
My issue was being involved with someone that was
untrustworthy.