((((copperpenny)))) I am so sorry to hear this about your daughter and my prayers go out for her, you and, her daughter. Do want to say that I think her daughter ought to at least know her mom is very ill. If your daughter were to die this could greatly damage the child.
My dad died when my sister was a young child and my mom refused to take her to see my dad before he died and my sister has never to this day forgiven my mom for that and she is the worst addict of all my siblings and think her resentment of this is a very huge contributing factor.
My brother got MRSA infection on his hand in jail. The guards said it was a self inflicted wound and would not let him see a doctor. When he was finally seen the doctor immediately hospitalized him and did surgery on the hand. The doctor said he could have lost his hand. If my mom had not kept calling the jail about his condition he probably would have. It took over a week before she could get anyone to listen to her.