Originally Posted by
anon505 
I'm going to my first AA meeting on Thursday. I feel like I need a sponser to guide me. I'm worried though because I don't want to advertise the fact that I have a problem. I need something solid though, I need a plan. Is it possible that I can do this by myself? What does everyone else do when found in a situation where people are trying to pressure you to drink? I don't know if most the people I know will support me in a life without alcohol, because most of them can't even take me saying no for an answer.
There are some here, like me, who just used SR, but it's a big ask.
I think most people here find the support of a regular face to face programme helps them, and maximises their chance of success.
I had to leave the circle of friends I had because most of the friendships were based on drinking...if your friendships are real and based on more than that, they will be mindful of your well being and respect your decision
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