Oh Blue..I love your comments. I have been on different boards where the posters are offended if you don't follow their advice. And if you don't appear to be strong or if you disagree with their advice....you are ostracized.
I agree with you....only YOU can decide. I do like to hear what others have done and how it worked for them. Then I decide what is best for ME.
hugs Anniecake....I can totally relate.