Mrs. Magoo...How long did it take you to get him out!!!!! and what steps did you take? I know you have a RO and I was wondering how that came about! My husband isn't aggressive or abusive. I understand about walking on eggshells....I am in no way afraid of him, I am afraid of the unknown. He asked me one day how I felt because I no longer had control over him I responded by saying "neither do YOU".