sfgirl,
I know exactly what you mean!! I think my first pregnancy, I was a "dry drunk". This one too (until the other when I fell off the wagon). Also, during the 2 years that I maintained a "only on Saturdays" drinking schedule... I was certainly a dry drunk. I kept myself busy with my son all day and then my running group each night to prevent myself from drinking... but that didn't really help me address the source of the problem... it wasn't the solution. I couldn't keep abstaining during the week and getting bombed on Saturdays only no matter how strong willed I am.
Thank you for this.