Thread: Dumped by my AB, confused
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Old 10-09-2009, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Free108 View Post
Yes, selfish is a good word. I feel like I've been left with this huge burden of grief to deal with and I know that I need to do some work or I wouldn't have got into this situation, but I'm mad that I'm the one falling apart and he's just motoring on, oblivious. I feel like a little kid having a tantrum screaming "it's not fair!". And I also feel completely stuck, sitting on my couch, doing the bare minimum, in a horrible funk, knowing that I need to get moving and get my life together but so in shock at what has happened. Ugh.
Try not to beat yourself up too bad and give yourself some credit... you are experiencing a break up. Break ups are tough.... with or without addiction in the mix. Go with the funk for awhile, cry a little and then get yourself back up and start working on your healing.
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