For me, fear was a good initial motivator - the fear of not wanting to die got me here - but it fades over time - and it's not a particularly positive motivation...
who do you want to be, eternallife? Focus on that 'real me' and give him a chance
and yeah the bottom line is the buck stops with us - but noone does this alone
We've all been here - we understand - and, as odd as it may sound? We do care what what happens to you...it's what makes this place work
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