Hey Unhappy.. I am totally feeling you on that ! Good for you to enjoy life
I am in a similar situation except my ah took off for a month now leaving me with 2kids 2dogs and all OUR bills to pay on one salary. He is on a suspension for getting busted trying to pick up at work!!! So im on my way to my alnnon and I see him with a chick drivin our family van! wtf !! I am sorry your stuck in this but sounds like your freedom is coming! I think after tonight incident its "time" to make his "disppearing act" perminant for me .. hey out to lunch- i did change the locks to protect the children! LOL thanks to everyone for all their advice.