Thanks, all, for the input so far. I'll wait for a while, at least. I certainly don't care if she worries. I'll talk with "Peggy" about it when the chance arises and let her direct that one.
Sometimes it helps just to write things out. Certainly to talk and hear opinions.
My recovery? I've been going to Al-Anon for a couple of months and get a lot out of it. I enjoy going to meetings and always feel better having gone.