In the end, after being told that his son is concerned for his health and that HE was the one asking for information about Al-Anon, hubby told me that if he ever found out that I’m feeding his son information again, it would be “over between us”
My AH did this exact thing after I told our kids that he still loves them but is addicted to alchohol and they aren't responsible. My goodness did he freak out, yelling and screaming at me. Pacing around the house, telling me he was divorcing me. What a nightmare. You're handling it so much better than I did. Seeing this in print, knowing that this is a typical reaction really makes me sick. I allowed myself to be bullied by him at that time.
Thank God I found this place.